12.05.07

Christmas Requests for Santa

Posted in Daily Journal, Advent Calendar at 12:10 am by Administrator

My sisters and I poured over the Sears Catalog and the Montgomery Ward Catalog and whatever other holiday shopping catalogs we had in the house. In the 1960s, most of the large department stores distributed huge catalogs with pictures of all their wares and, it seemed, we had every single catalog available.

Of course, for my sisters and for me, the most important parts of the catalogs were the toy sections.

We thumbed through the catalogs and made extensive lists of the toys we wanted for Christmas, carefully noting any available options for size and color. Finally, we presented our lists to our mother.

“Santa’s not bringing you all that!” Mother exclaimed when she saw the multi-page lists we had prepared.

“But how do you know Santa won’t bring it all?” we asked.

Despite our protestations, Mother made us pare down our lists to a reasonable size that we could mail off to Santa.

“But we need a stamp,” I commented, as we sealed the envelopes addressed to “Santa Claus, North Pole”.

“You don’t need a stamp on a letter to Santa Claus,” Mom answered.

That sounded reasonable, I thought.

We bundled up in our warm but bulky winter clothes and headed to the Post Office, just a short block away from our house and, after posting our letters, we boarded a bus to go shopping on “The Avenue”.

Central Avenue was one of our favorite places to shop. Central Avenue was home to much more interesting stores than was Downtown and, with the holiday decorations and lights, was also much more festive.

Central Avenue was the location of Woolworth’s, one of our favorite stores. We liked Woolworth’s because we could visit our Aunt Statia who worked there, and we were sometimes allowed to sit at the soda fountain and order banana splits, the price of which was determined by picking one of the balloons that hung over the soda counter. If you were lucky, you might select a balloon with a price as low as a penny.

Christmas shopping also afforded us the opportunity to visit Santa and tell him, in person, what we wanted for Christmas.

“How will he remember what I want for Christmas?” I asked.

“Don’t worry, he will,” was the reply.

“But how?” I asked again.

“He just will.”

My sisters and I waited in line to talk to Santa. We noticed with some alarm that, once propped on Santa’s lap, several of the children in front of us were so frightened of the old man that all they could do was cry. Hmmph, I thought. That won’t happen to me.

Then came my turn.

“What’s your name?” Santa asked.

“Stephen”, I replied.

“And what do you want for Christmas, Stephen?” Santa asked.

My mind went blank. I couldn’t think of a single, blessed thing. Memory of the list I had so recently made had simply vanished from my head.

“Ummm…” I stammered. “Ummm…”

“Yes? Go ahead,” said Santa, gently.

“A FIRE ENGINE!” I blurted out.

I disengaged myself from Santa’s lap, readjusted my jacket, and walked over to my mother. She looked at me quizzically and said, “I didn’t know you wanted a fire engine.”

“I don’t,” I said, matter-of-factly.

“Then why did you ask Santa for one?” Mom asked, a bit perplexed.

“I couldn’t think of anything else!” I told her.

Mom helped my sisters and me with our scarves and mittens and hats and we all headed back outside to the street.

There was no wind, and the temperature was mild. It had just started to snow. Big, fat, lazy flakes were tumbling down onto the street. As we stood at the bus stop, we marveled at the sights and sounds around us.

The snow was gently falling - a wonderful, wet, just-before-Christmas snow. Bright holiday decorations and colorful lights were everywhere. And the sounds of Christmas Carols drifted around us, as if carried on the snowflakes themselves.

Written for the Advent Calendar of Christmas Memories - Day 6.

Copyright © 2007 by Stephen J. Danko

My Mother, Key Punch Operator

Posted in Daily Journal, Directories, Niedzialkowski, Occupations at 12:01 am by Administrator

In 1943, my grandparents were listed in the city directory along with four of their five children. My mother, Jane A. Niedzialkowski, is listed for the first time. Her occupation was key punch operator, a career to which she would return many years later and would continue until her death in 1980.

Kostanty, Helen A., Natalie, Raymond, Jane A., and Frederick Niedzialkowski are listed in the 1943 Worcester Directory published by R.L. Polk & Co. One child was still too young to be listed.

Worcester Directory 1943 Entry for Kostanty and Helen Niedzialkowski and Family

Worcester Directory 1942 Entry for Kostanty and Helen Niedzialkowski and Family

SOURCE: Massachusetts City Directories, Worcester 1943, page 660, Kostanty Niedzialkoski; digital image, Ancestry.com (http://www.ancestry.com : accessed 03 December 2007); citing Polk’s Worcester (Worcester County, Mass.) City Directory Vol. 1943 C. 1943. Boston, MA: R.L. Polk & Co.

Click on the link for a PDF copy of the Worcester Directory 1943 Entry for Kostanty and Helen Niedzialkowski and Family. The record provides the following information:

  • Kostanty Niedzialkowski was a steel worker who resided at 18 Huntington av;
  • his wife’s name was Helen A.;
  • his daughter Natalie V. worked as a stenographer and resided at 18 Huntington av;
  • his son Raymond was in the USA military service;
  • his daughter Jane A. worked as a key punch operator for Grafton & Knight Co. and resided at 18 Huntington av; and
  • his son Frederick was in the USA military service.

My grandfather’s occupation was once again listed as a steel worker, although he was listed as a set up man in the 1942 Worcester Directory.

My mother’s surname is spelled as Niedzialkoski even though the directory lists the surname as Niedzialkowski for the rest of the family.

The name Damian Niedzialkowski again appears in the directory (misspelled as Damiam Niedzalkowski). He may or may not be related to my grandfather, but the circumstantial evidence indicates that he is probably a distant relative.

Copyright © 2007 by Stephen J. Danko